args: refactor mlock/mmap/directio into load-mode (#20834)

* args: overhaul mmap/mlock/dio into single arg

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* docs: update docs with llama-gen-docs

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* chore: satisfy code quality

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* args: make the `+` sign an actual modifier now

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* chore: general code clean up + comments

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* arg: fix deprecated flags support

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* arg: quick sanity check

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* bench: sync llama-bench argument parsing

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* fix: bugfix variable behaviour + llama-bench lm column size

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* arg: inverse commands should do the opposite instead of doing nothing

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* bench: fix incorrect dash

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* bench: fix missing modifiers for deprecated flags

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* llama: switch back to thread_local

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* arg: switch back to single enum

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* docs: update arg docs

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* chore: fix missing `mlock` from llama_load_mode_from_str + cleanup llama-bench

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* llama: fix mlock not activating

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* arg: add deprecation warning when old and new flags are combined

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* arg: cont add comment for todo in the future

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* docs: sync with upstream

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* docs: re-sync with upstream again

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common/fit.cpp

@@ -54,8 +54,7 @@ static std::vector<llama_device_memory_data> common_get_device_memory_data_impl(
 
     llama_model_params mparams_copy = *mparams;
     mparams_copy.no_alloc  = true;
-    mparams_copy.use_mmap  = false;
-    mparams_copy.use_mlock = false;
+    mparams_copy.load_mode = LLAMA_LOAD_MODE_NONE;
 
     llama_model * model = llama_model_load_from_file(path_model, mparams_copy);
     if (model == nullptr) {